Here are the contents of this amazing minicourse

• soft swinging vs. hard swinging
• how to talk a partner into swinging
• things to think about for beginning to swing
• is swinging just for couples?
• what are swinging clubs?
• dealing with jealousy when swinging
  

Extract

If you’re going to clubs…

Some couple save kissing for just each other and won’t allow it between their partner and someone else.  This is just one of many ideas to show commitment to each other.  But when you stop to think about it, you and your partner are always leaving to go home with each other, even after a wild and exciting sexual experience with someone else.  Some couples find that they become even more confident in their relationship.

Of course, it should go without saying that agreeing completely into trying swinging is a prerequisite to swinging.  If one partner wasn’t too keen in the first place, then you may find that accusations and jealousy pop up a lot more.

Talk the possibility of this out before you even start swinging.

Why you might not feel jealous

Swinging is just so amazing that you may not even feel jealous.  And that’s okay too.  Some experienced swingers feel that their relationship is enhanced by the swinging extras.  Knowing that they can share something sexual with another person or another couple can lead to greater intimacy and communication in other areas as well.

So a lot of couples just don’t feel jealous.  It’s actually quite erotic to watch your partner be pleased by someone else or pleasure someone other than yourself.  Trust me.

You may also have such a strong relationship already that swinging is just another adventure that you’re going on.  And there’s not a smidge of jealousy because you both wanted to try swinging out anyways.

Don't take my word for it.
Listen to what our readers say.

An excellent introduction. Shares my own take on swinging & the importance of communication.

Andrew from the U.K.

Simple and direct...best handbook available online!

Nick from Florida

It's very honest yet elementary while being extremely informative to a newcomer.

Terra from Nevada

It's a good read

James from U.K.

Very informative

Caeser from California

I liked the way it made swinging, and the desire to do it seem so ordinary and usual

Lucy from the U.K.

Nice introduction to the theme.

Rainer from Mexico

"Pushing off" gives us a window to the lifestyle. We've being talking about swinging for a while, and fantasizing about doing it with others makes us aroused when we make love.

A couple from Canada

It gave an interesting insight

Paul from U.K.